Spoon-Feeding is NOT on the Menu 🍽️ (So Stop Asking for It)


 

Let me be real blunt, because sugarcoating isn’t my thing—I am not here to coddle you. I don’t have a baby bottle, I don’t have a bib, and I sure as hell don’t have the patience to repeat myself like a broken record. You want change? Then act like it.

Humanity has this weird obsession with being spoon-fed every last piece of information instead of taking an ounce of responsibility for their own growth. It’s like they expect someone (me, for example) to hand-feed them solutions while they just sit there, nodding, and doing absolutely nothing with it. No. We’re not doing that.

Here’s the cold, hard truth:
🔹 If you need me to explain something 20 times, you’re not listening.
🔹 If you want me to hold your hand and walk you through life, you’re in the wrong place.
🔹 If you expect me to comfort you while you avoid doing the work, I’m not your person.

And let’s get real about this empath vs. narcissist bullshit because NO ONE is 100% either one.
✨ We are all both to varying degrees.
✨ What you see in me that pisses you off? That’s your own reflection screaming at you to handle your shit.
✨ If I seem too harsh, maybe that’s exactly what you need to finally move instead of sitting in the same cycle, expecting someone to drag you out of it.

So, let’s make this crystal fucking clear:
💥 I will NOT coddle you.
💥 I will NOT spoon-feed you.
💥 I will NOT entertain delusions of “I’m pure empath” or “I’m nothing like them.”

We are mirrors. We see what we need to wake the hell up and get moving. If you don’t like what you see? That’s on you, not me. Do the work.

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