Phoenix Rebirth - Ready to Commit? (Double & Triple Check)


 

Before you dive in and waste your time (and energy, which, let’s face it, you don’t have much of to spare), take a minute to run through this checklist. If you check all the boxes, congratulations—you’re ready to level up! If not… well, maybe take a nap and come back later.

  1. I’m tired of the same old, same old.

    • Yes, I’m DONE with whatever old patterns and energies aren’t serving me.
    • No, I think I’ll just stay where I am, thanks.

  2. I’ve got the energy (and the right kind of energy).

    • Absolutely, I’m ready to give this all I’ve got (in a sustainable, emotionally intelligent way, of course).
    • I’m not sure if I can bring my full self to the table… maybe later.

  3. I understand this isn’t a magic pill.

    • Yes, I know healing, growth, and change take effort, and I’m ready to do the work.
    • Nope, I was hoping for a quick fix (better luck next time).

  4. I’m ready to laugh through the chaos.

    • Heck yes, I get that healing doesn’t have to be serious and is way more fun when I can laugh at myself!
    • Healing? Fun? I’m still trying to figure out how to keep it together.

  5. I believe in authenticity over perfection.

    • Yes, I’m all about keeping it real—no masks, no pretending.
    • Maybe... I like the idea of being “perfect” a little too much.

  6. I understand there are no “quick wins” here.

    • Absolutely. I’m in this for the long haul, and I’ll celebrate the small wins along the way.
    • Honestly, I was just looking for something that would give me immediate results.

  7. I’m okay with things getting a little messy (in a good way).

    • Yep, I know that transformation involves some messiness, and I’m cool with it.
    • I prefer to keep things neat and tidy, thank you very much.

  8. I’m willing to set boundaries and respect yours.

    • Yes, I understand that clear boundaries are essential for healthy growth and respect.
    • Boundaries? What boundaries?

  9. I’m ready to attract the right energy and people.

    • Yes! I know the right people and energy will show up, and I’ll keep my vibe high to make sure it’s a perfect match.
    • Not sure about this one. I might just try to control everything, and that usually works (right?).

  10. I’m ready to support others in their growth, too.

  • Yes, I understand that real transformation happens when we lift each other up.
  • I thought this was just about me?

If you checked most or all of these boxes, let’s talk. If not, no hard feelings, just make sure you’re genuinely ready before you waste anyone’s time and energy—especially yours.

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