🔥 Not My Circus, Not My Flying F*ing Monkeys: Reclaiming My Power as a Guide 🔥


 

If you attach your own success to someone else’s outcome, you might as well hand them the keys to your entire damn kingdom. Their willingness (or refusal) to change has nothing to do with your ability to guide—it’s a direct reflection of their own readiness. Period.

You could be the most powerful catalyst on this planet, but if someone isn’t willing to do the work, it. does. not. matter. And that, my friends, is the most in-my-face, slap-me-with-a-brick lesson I’ve had to learn. WHY? Because I TEACH this very thing every damn day.

💥 Let go of the outcome.

💥 Your worth is not tied to anyone else’s success.

💥 You can’t coddle, you can’t hand-hold, and you damn sure can’t drag people across the finish line.

You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink. You can lead a client to transformation, but you can’t make them choose it. And let’s be honest—who the hell wants to be an emotional waterboy for someone who refuses to hydrate?

For five years, I have been telling people this. And yet, some tiny, sneaky-ass part of me still hadn’t fully embodied it. Well, that stops TODAY. No more leaks. No more waiting. No more draining my energy on people who refuse to meet me halfway.

I will guide like I am meant to. I will lead them to the water and walk the hell away. The next choice? It’s theirs and theirs alone.

I did what I came here to do. My success is mine. It is not tied to anyone else’s story, choices, or resistance.

✨ Not my circus. Not my flying f*ing monkeys.** ✨

I am powerful. I am unstoppable. And if that intimidates others? That is THEIR problem.

BOOM. 🎤🔥

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