Family & Friends: Read This Before You Ask for a “Favor”


 

Let’s get something straight—just because we share DNA or have history doesn’t mean you get a free pass to my time, energy, and literal job. I don’t walk into your workplace and demand free services, so why do you think you can slide into my space expecting a discount, a handout, or (the absolute worst) “just a quick question” that turns into a full session? Nah, we’re not doing that in 2025.

Here’s the cold, hard truth:
✅ When you pay for something, you value it more.
✅ When you invest in yourself, you actually listen, apply, and grow.
✅ When you respect my boundaries, we keep our relationship healthy.

But when you don’t pay?
❌ You don’t take it seriously.
❌ You half-listen, forget, or (my favorite) act like you’re floating in the cosmos and suddenly have amnesia.
❌ You drain my energy, throw off my workflow, and make my job 10x harder.

Checks and balances exist for a reason. My booking system? Not a suggestion. My prices? Not up for negotiation. My time? Not yours to casually claim because we “go way back.”

So, let me make it painfully clear:
💥 You want my services? You book them. You pay for them. Period.
💥 You don’t want to do that? Cool, I’m not your healer/teacher/guru.
💥 You want to argue? Sounds like a personal problem.

I’m done repeating myself, and I’m definitely done feeding the entitlement monster I didn’t sign up to raise. Family, friend, stranger—it doesn’t matter. Respect the work or find someone else. 🔥

Mic drop. 🎤

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