Energy Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All—So Stop Acting Like It Is


 

What’s true for one person’s journey isn’t automatically true for another’s. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Some love to preach that “energy is just energy” with no dark, no light—it just is.

Alright, let’s break that down for a second. If energy has no polarity, then why do we feel the difference between a warm hug and a gut-punch of bad vibes when someone walks into a room? Why do some places feel peaceful and others feel like a horror movie set waiting for the lights to flicker? Oh, right—because energy does have a signature. Yours, mine, theirs—every single one carries its own unique frequency.

Now, I get it. From a macro perspective, sure, energy is just energy. But if you’re standing on that mountaintop shouting about neutrality while the rest of us are still climbing our way up, maybe take a step back. Not everyone has the luxury of viewing it through a “we are all one” lens just yet. Some of us are down here actually working through the layers—sifting through past-life contracts, ancestral gunk, and lifetimes of spiritual homework that didn’t get turned in on time.

Free will kinda sucks like that. People have used it to bail on their soul lessons, leaving a whole mess for future lifetimes to untangle. And while you may have reached the level where everything is just “oneness and flow,” others are still navigating the sticky, tangled, messy reality of this work.

So before you get all huffy about someone acknowledging the very real differences in energy, check yourself. If your irritation is starting to show, guess what? That’s your ego, and that means you just lowered your own vibration.

Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.

So maybe instead of preaching, try some patience. Let people do their work, at their own pace, in their own way. Otherwise, you might just find yourself getting schooled in a lesson you thought you already graduated from. 😈

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