8 Ways to Know You’re Actually Ready to Work With Me


 

Let’s skip past the sugarcoated nonsense and dive into the full-blown truth. You might think you’re ready to work with me, but let’s be real—most people aren’t. Healing isn’t about talking in circles and throwing pity parties. It’s about owning your shit, making moves, and committing to transformation. So, are you actually ready? Let’s find out.

1. You’re Done Playing the Blame Game

You’ve made some rough choices, and instead of pointing fingers, you’re ready to own them. No more dodging accountability. No more victim mentality. Just straight-up responsibility for your life.

2. You Don’t Have “Glorified Justifications” for Your Pain

If you’re still making excuses for why you allowed someone to treat you like garbage—whether it was childhood trauma, low self-worth, or just plain comfort in dysfunction—you’re not ready. If you can admit it happened and now you’re focused on healing instead of rehashing, welcome aboard.

3. You Know Trauma Runs Deep, and You Want to Fix It

You’re not in denial. You KNOW your trauma isn’t just a bad memory—it’s a pattern, a cycle, a self-sabotaging script you’ve been running for years. And you’re ready to rewrite it.

4. You’re Tired of “Not Vibing” With the Wrong People

You’ve tried to find help before, but something always felt off. The cookie-cutter, love-and-light fluff didn’t hit right. You’re looking for someone who gets it, who keeps it real, and who won’t coddle your bullshit. That’s me.

5. You Can Handle Unfiltered Sarcasm and Blunt Truths

If you get offended every time someone calls you out, you’re gonna struggle here. I don’t tiptoe. I don’t sugarcoat. I deliver hard truths wrapped in humor and reality checks. If that excites you instead of terrifies you, we’re golden.

6. You Can Take Criticism Without Melting Down

We ALL need critique. If your defense mechanism is to get offended and shut down the moment someone gives you constructive feedback, we’re not gonna get very far. Growth requires reflection, not resistance.

7. You KNOW You Have a Bigger Purpose

You feel it deep in your bones—this life is about more than just existing. You know you’re here for a reason, and you’re finally ready to clear out the bullshit blocking you from stepping into your purpose.

8. You’re Open to the Idea of Past Lives & Reincarnation

I don’t work on a surface level. Healing isn’t just about this lifetime—it’s about ancestral wounds, karmic cycles, and past life baggage. If you think that’s all woo-woo nonsense, this probably isn’t the space for you.

Still Here? Then You’re Ready.

If you nodded your head to most (or all) of these, congratulations—you’re actually ready to do the work. That’s where I come in. If you’re serious about breaking your toxic cycles and stepping into your true power, I’ve got the tools, the insights, and the straight-shooting approach to help you get there.

Your move. Let’s get to work.

www.phoenixrebirth.life/services/

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